No longer on Mothering.com

Some of you read my blog and others don't but I just wanted to let you all know that I am NOT be returning to Mothering.com nor will I encourage anybody else I know to visit that site. One of my post was removed in regards to circumcision. Basically the topic was if whether or not you were going to circumcise your son. My response was this:

All I've known is c'rd so when I brought the issue up to my partner he is totally for it. I'm open to understanding both sides but I feel I might lean more towards going for it. I don't know. I think I need to pray on it some more.

To me, I see nothing wrong with this statement but apparently I violated some terms of agreement by saying that I am going to do it. Interesting, because every other post said that that person was not. So I'm violating the agreement but saying I am but I want to pray over it? WTF? I am truly pissed by this and very much turned off from this site. I have recommended it to numerous coworkers and plan to tell people to stay way from it. Until they get some real moderators that know what they are doing, I will not be back. To those I have built relationships with, I will continue to keep in touch via personal email. If not, well, it was nice while it lasted but I will not stand for this type of injustice.

Just a doggone shame all around. I really liked that message board. Thank you to that person that sent me a heads-up on my post being removed. I really appreciate that.

26 weeks

I am officially 26 weeks (as of midnight last night). I got so busy at work last night that I didn't even bother blogging in the afternoon like I normally do. Things at this point are pretty well. We finally decided on a first name for the baby: Kendall! Yes, I got my name. As for the middle name, I've left that up to K. I would prefer if his middle name was the same as his father's but he does not like his middle name and is pretty adamant about his son not having that name. I just thought it would be good so that they could have the same initials. My mom likes the name and says that we can call him Kenny. Yea right. His father will not have that. Even I won't have that.



So, now that Kendall has officially been named, it's on to the baby shower. The location has been paid for and secured.

Braxton Hicks contractions already?!

As I was sitting here all nice and quiet, jamming to music here at work, I felt a tighten in my stomach. I mean, a serious ass cramp. I call my aunt and she tells me to call the doctor ASAP. Turns out I was having braxton hicks contractions. I've been told to monitor them for the rest of the day, drink plenty of fluids and put my feet up. Of course she had to throw that thing in there about not lifting anything heavy but this is me we're talking about. I live by myself and have no one else to rely on all the time. Nonetheless, I'll figure it out.

Other than that, I feel fine. Kendall has been moving all day along. Squirming and stretching out. I guess the space is starting to feel a bit crowded but we have to do what we can. Right now my body is telling me to go home and go to bed. That I am definitely going to do. I plan to put on my nightgown, put in a movie and just doze until my hearts content. Then watch this boy have me waking up at midnight, wide awake. LOL

I do need to remember to talk to K this weekend about ordering the crib and dresser. We can't wait any longer on that. It needs to be done soon and I certainly don't want to wait until the last minute to start preparing for Kendall's arrival. I'm beginning to get anxious and it's driving me crazy. Gosh, I need to look for shower invitations this weekend. Well, next weekend. Gas is too high to drive all over the place. I can also shop online so I might go that route instead.

Well, that's it for now. Let me go get some water and finish the rest of my day so I can head home.

25 weeks..and two days

So I forgot to finish my post from the other day but this is cool because I'm actually 25 weeks now so it makes more sense for me to enter something now. How am I feeling? I actually feel pretty good. Some days I'm ok with my body and other days I'm a little bothered by it. I guess this whole changing of and expanding of my belly thing really bothers me. Granted I know there's a baby in there, it's still a bit much. Anyway, I feel good and know that he's doing well.

I have finally secured a place for my baby shower. It's going to cost $475 dollars but when you have a baby coming inthe middle of the wedding season, you might as well expect that. The only thing left to do is decide on invitations. My friends are helping with the food and my mom and aunt are going to pay for the location. I'll pick up decorations and such as it gets closer. Can't depend on everyone for everything.

We still haven't decided on a name for this kid yet. Somedays I don't even feel like fighting with K about this but I really want to get this done and out of the way. Kendall is still my first and only choice. Wait. I take that back. I like Mason but I know he's not going to go for that. Either way, I want this child to have a name by the baby shower.

Speaking of baby showers, I am supposed to be going to the first lady of my church's shower on Sunday. I haven't received an invitation nor do I have the address and directions. Sigh. I guess I'll call tonight.

The other night Kendall was doing some flips and turns like never before. His movement is getting stronger and more consistent. The doctor did say I need to start monitoring his movement, especially after I've had a meal. Speaking of meals, I need to decide what I'm going to eat tonight because right now I'm not feeling like anything at all.

I've been ghost from MDC for the past couple of days. I need to jump back on and see what's been happening in the lives of the momma's. I'm going to take a look in a few, finish some work and then head home for the day. My bed is calling my name...

At the end of 24 weeks

I haven't blogged since just before my birthday. I've been so busy and it seems like things are really starting to pick up. I turned 27 on Sunday and had a great day. Spent it with K and my friends and baby boy kicked all day. I guess he was wishing mommy a happy birthday too. I had a doctor's appointment on Monday (yesterday) and everything went great. My BP is great, his movements and heartbeat are awesome and I haven't gained a pound. Well, I gained the two I was missing from the 5 that I lost so that puts me back at my pre-pregnancy weight. The doctor said that she doesn't think I'll gain anymore than 10-15 pounds during my pregnancy. This, apparently is good. I'm just grateful all is well. I return in May for my glucose screening and regular appointment and then I'll start seeing them every two weeks. Wow! Every two weeks! I can't believe it's almost time. I feel like I haven't gotten anything ready.



Now that we've pretty much narrowed down the whole crib and registry stuff, now I can focus on ordering it and getting the baby shower stuff together. I still need to get things together around my house and plan to work on that stuff soon too. I'll be 25 weeks tomorrow.

Fatigue....again?!

I thought you were supposed to have increase energy in your second trimester? Not today. I am so tired. I plan to go to my car around 3:30 and take me a nap for an hour. Gosh I'm exhausted. Baby boy is moving all over the place today. I don't know if the sandwich I just ate give him and energy burst but he has not stopped moving. I mean, gosh little boy! Take a break. Mommy is tired and need a break.

Nothing new to report today. Still trying to decide on baby shower invitations and find a location for the shower. It looks like it might be at Eagle's Landing Country Club after all but we'll see. This is totally my mom's thing so I'm going to let her run with it.

On another note my skin is suddenly become oily. My face is horribly oily and I had to break down and get some clinique stuff to clear it up. Luckily, it has been rather helpful and I plan to stick with it. I do know that the body butter is not/does not work because I'm all ashy again. Perhaps after extensive sloughing things will improve.

Well, let me had to the restroom and then to my car. This nap is going to be a great.

6 months

Man, I didn't realize that it has been at least a week since I last posted anything. I've finally hit the 6 month mark today. It's amazing because I feel him moving all over the place now and it's much stronger. I still can't believe this kid is 12 inches long as point. I wonder if he's facing backwards still? Since I won't have anymore ultrasounds, I'm pretty much left to waiting until the boy gets here.

Yesterday I actaully felt him move on the outside of my stomach. He's such a busy body. Last night he kept me up until 1am with all the moving. He was unusually active all day yesterday. Other than that, I feel pretty good today. Heading to the mall after work to buy something to wear to the play and something to wear Saturday night if we all go out to Dugan's. Saturday will also be the "big reveal" because I haven't told anyone that I'm pregnant. LOL Should be interesting.

No change in weight but I have been a little bit more moody lately than normal. Could just be me but that's not the norm. Oh well. I'm pregnant so I get some lean way. LOL

Ready? Set? Register!

So I had another "I'm going to be somebody's mother" panic attack today. I think the stress of trying to figure out my apartment situation, coupled with lack of money today, etc, has been overwhelming. I know I'm worrying for no reason but still. This is MAJOR. I didn't think it would be like this. I always envisioned pregnancy as carefree and breezy. I mean, technically it is but sometimes, the emotions are uncontrollable.

The plan is going to register this weekend. I think we said tomorrow. Pretty much knock out every and any store we need to hit. I'm going to spend the evening rearranging and packing up my apartment. I really want to move into a two bedroom but I think it will be better if I just stick where I am and make things work for me. I'll try not to keep worrying but I just want things to be as close to perfect for this little boy as possible. I know that's asking a bit much but hey, gotta make it work.

I've still been thinking about this name thing and one name still sticks with me. I know K wants to kinda wait but hey, I know what I want my child named. I won't stress it but I won't keep calling him "little boy" either. LOL. Since I have nothing to post I guess I'll leave you with a picture from 23 wks and 4 days..

UPDATE: Let me add a note that on 4/10, my mom said that I would pretty much spend the rest of my life yellling out instructions when it comes to kids. "Sit down", "don't do that", "be still" "clean your room" etc. Just want to make sure I remember this.

23 weeks

We're hit 23 weeks, one week away from 6 months. I feel pretty good. The pollen is pretty bad outside, which is hell for someone like me who can't really take anything but it's all good. Baby boy is kicking up a storm and moving all the time but I would prefer that to no movement. He attended his first concert last night: Mary J and Jay-Z Heart of the City tour. It was great.

So far all I've done is picked up the baby stuff from Naomi but I still need to go register for my own. I did manage to register at Kohl's but of course I have a couple of other stores to add to the list. I would prefer a variety as opposed to just two. I also want to have all the funiture and stuff in place before it gets hot. Personally, I don't see myself out shopping in the heat.

So far, the only new thing I've noticed is that his kicks are getting stronger and my energy level is back up a little bit. I try to get out more and do some walking but with the pollen, I'm pretty much limited to work and my apartment.

In regards to name, we still haven't decided on one yet. K wants the name to just "hit him" but I have one that has hit me. *sigh* Either way, our son still does not have a name but I still call him by the name I prefer anyway.

Short entry

Nothing really new to report today. Baby boy is kicking and moving constantly, especially after I eat. We play this game now of me pushing at his feet, and then he pulls them away as if I'm bothering him. LOL. It's so cute. I know it annoys him but mommy wants to play sometimes just like he wants to play sometimes.

We're going to go ahead and register at some point this month. I was hoping it would be this weekend but I doubt it. I'm sure K has stuff to do so I might just go to one of the stores and register by myself. Hell, I need to go check on cribs and things like that. We were supposed to do it together but school seems to have him bogged down to an extent. Other than that, no big baby plans. Might go pick up some diapers (again!) and then call it a day.

Officially 22 weeks.

I'm officially 22 weeks and doing great. I sent the girls pictures of baby boy today. He's been kicking it up all day. I love when he does that. Let's mommy know he's alright. I still can't believe it's almost time. Just a few more months to go. I bought some more diapers today and a jumper that says "Daddy's Little Wingman" on it. LOL. I know K is going to get a kick out of it. Trust and believe those two are going to spend lots of time together.

This totally random but one thing the pregnancy books and folks don't really talk about it how horny you get while pregnant. Seriously. I know I got a belly and all but that has not changed my sex drive to say the least. If anything, it's up even more from before. Poor K. I hate that we don't live together because, man, I could sure use him every night. I won't go into detail about this because eventually one day my son will read this blog and I don't need him to know all about the dirty thoughts mommy had about daddy.

The plan is to go register this weekend. I don't know if that's going to happen but we'll see. I'm going to call him tonight to see what's up with that. Hopefully he's available but again, we'll see. If not, I'll just go do it by myself or take my mom. Well, never mind because she'll probably be off playing tennis somewhere.

Still debating on this name thing. I love Kendall but I think he really wants to name him after him. I don't know. I might consent and we name him after his father but I don't know. Gotta think and pray about this for a lifetime. LOL Well, let me get ready to pack up this belly and take this boy home. Momma needs to get her yoga on and do some stuff around the house.